The Motherhood

MOTHERHOOD


This film tells the story of a woman named Eliza who decides to become a housewife. Before getting married Eliza is a fiction writer. But the current state put itself to be a housewife who was in charge of all for family and household tasks. Starting from waking up he had to prepare their children for school needs, needs her husband, cooking, accompanied her to school, cleaning house, taking care of their pets, to accompany his son to play in the park and set up his son's birthday party. The film illustrates that Being a housewife is not an easy task, because in this case Eliza in charge of preparing all domestic purposes, so he felt the loss of time to actualize themselves. The sidelines of his duties as a housewife, Eliza still found time for hobbies writing, through its own sites. Until one when he was a race to write articles about what being a mother. Eliza has a husband named Avery, they were blessed with two children, named Clara and Lucas. 6-year-old Clara. But Avery is not much help to her husband's household work, Avery was more preoccupied with his work outside the home, so it is not uncommon to feel upset that Eliza did not get attention from her husband and her presence at home as not recognized. But eventually, the condition is getting better, Eliza began to be aware of their role as mothers and wives, about the fact that he has a good husband and two children whom he loved because it is this complete article and Eliza can improve the condition of his family. Eliza had 2 children by age 5 years and about 2 years. At this stage the parents should have the "power" in front of their children, responsible, could decide to allow or forbid their children. Authority here is not only aimed at children, but also in conjunction with others. Based on the Stage in Interpersonal Relationship, Intimacy Eliza are on stage, in which he experienced anxiety fullfillment, that there is dissatisfaction (fear of what he owes unrequited balanced), this is seen when he felt that he was doing all the chores around the house but Avery had never thought of her husband as if its existence and only Eliza in charge of the household chores. Eliza also had Exitement Anxiety, which is worried about losing freedom, it is seen as Eliza felt frustrated with her household duties very piling up, making it feel time to actualize himself less and less and he should spend his time just to take care of household chores. In addition, Eliza also had Interpersonal deterioration, namely withdrawal and separation conflicts. This occurs when Eliza was getting fed up with her role as homemaker and wife, he tried to leave the house and asked for a divorce with her husband, even she could not care for her husband's words about his two children, but in the end because of his anxiety to make Eliza their children back to family, and at that moment he would start to express what he feels for this. Here the start there is openness between Eliza and Avery.

Moral:
Don’t be afraid to lose the freedom of your life!
Don’t think negative things that will happen in the future!
Solve the problem with slow, don’t run away from problems you face!